Teaching
Meaning
Epic wisdom values forgiveness, but not foolish passivity. You can release bitterness while still protecting boundaries and acting with justice.
Practical Application
Ask yourself two separate questions in a conflict: what resentment am I ready to release, and what boundary still needs to be kept? Do not confuse inner softness with outer weakness.
Source
Mahabharata, Vidura Niti themes
Attributed to: Vidura